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I have to say, no matter what else happens in my life; whoever comes and goes; however I make it through the semesters: I really enjoy hanging around with James. I told him today he's the perfect mix of cute and cocky that makes him irresistible in a rather adorable kind of way. Stephanie informed me he's really good looking... which I guess I knew? But that's really not why I like hanging out with him.

He's funny, we share similar views on life, and we have a history full of dumb moments and memorable times. We tease each other. We work out together. We cook together. And none of it is forced. If I'm busy, he doesn't get mad. I guess I really don't call him that often.

I think I like James so much because nothing is expected of me. I am who I am, and he is who he is. We find the same joys in life, and support each other... with a tad bit of teasing and good humored insulting added to the mix.

To be fair (alright, honest). He's the perfect stature for me. 6'4", blond hair, blue eyes, strong, not perfectly in shape, but still great. Plays basketball. Determined. Ambitious. Considerate... with a little bit of the good ol' opening doors thing going on. He does have some ideas of where women belong... (seriously, the kitchen?) which grate on my nerves. However, he understand that women are just as powerful and capable in the real world; also disadvantaged in the physical plane.

Anyways. I know nothing will ever happen with James b/c he's such a great friend and I like having him around randomly. I just wanted to have in down in writing how great I think he is.

New Hope

Well I'm not freaking out, and I'm not worried about anything in particular. I'm nervous. I'm that jittery nervous that comes with the unknown. It's the kind of nervous that sets your stomach to rumbling and your mind to thinking. I want to figure it out, and yet, part of the fun is just letting things happen as they will.

So I met a guy. Actually, I guess you could say I met a man. His name is Robert, and I'm still working on what I want to call him. Robert. Rob. Bob. Nah, Bob is yucky. I think I like Rob: the name and the man. He's cute in a boyishly charming way. He's honest. He is gentlemanly. He opens doors for me. He shares my view of the world. We are both really active. He loves how independent and focused I am. He understands me being busy. He offers me rides because he can.

He is making me believe again. He's this anomaly of a man. Chivalrous, kind, considerate, affectionate, intelligent, determined. We have the same need for our good ol' 8 hours of sleep, (which I won't be getting tonight by writing this). We both try to eat healthy. He's one of a kind. I'm afraid to keep getting to know him. There are really only two possible outcomes. Either (1) he's not the amazing man I believe him to be, which would leave me once again disappointed in the male persuasion all over again OR (2) he is the perfect man for me, and I'll only have 5 months with him. I know 5 months can feel like a lifetime, but there's almost no good that can come of this.

Except: maybe it will heal my broken, twisted, darkened heart. And is it even possible to put a price on 5 glorious months of looking forward to seeing Rob. 5 months of unwavering support of me. 5 months of smiles. 5 months of amazing kissing. 5 months of memories to last a lifetime. Will it be enough? Will it be too much? I guess only time will tell.

Living to work or working to live?

As everyone already knows, I tend to be a little bit of a workaholic. I work and work and work and sometimes I stop to play. However I think I always work because usually I have nothing better to do. Once and awhile something better comes along and changes that perspective. Today I took my Hindi quiz (epic fail anyone?). Shailesh gave me an extra .5 points as a benefit of the doubt. He said he knew I know the material, I just have a hard time showing it. Eh. I guess that's mostly true. I do know a lot of the material, but sometimes it's really hard to get it to come out. I should know by now to concentrate on the new words we learn, but I think that'll be changing really quickly. Now there are more rules and things of that nature to learn.

But today was nice. After taking my quiz, I stayed around to chat with Shailesh about India and traveling. Then I ran through the Hail storm to my apartment and just chilled. Soon it was time to go to the ARC for rock climbing. Almost everyone was there. Myself, Stacy, Julia, Steve, Julia's friend Mike, Jenna, Bre, Billy... it was a party on the wall. I feel bad cheating as much as I do climbing, but by golly, I just love climbing. It's so fun to feel that challenge. After running with Nick and biking/lifting with James, my muscles are killing me, but eh. It's good to work out and kick one's butt every so often.

So now Eric's here and we are just chilling on our computers, not really talking, but just being near each other. It's nice and peaceful. Reminds me that I work to live, and work isn't everything.

Hand-Off

So life sure can be funny. Eric mentioned to me that he's used to having a lot of female friends. And I said that I have a lot of guy friends, so not to worry. Case in point... Nick and I had class till 6 and walked home. Then we met up at the ARC and ran 2 miles together. As we were leaving I ran into James and biked with him for another 30 minutes. Then we did upper body lifting and a quick abs workout. James offered to take me home, and I ended up making dinner for him. Eric showed up to get his bike while James and I were eating. And now I'm off to Eric's. It's weird. I like being alone, but I have a penchant for hanging out with a lot of my guy friends. I just want a night to myself. Ugh. And yet... maybe I don't.

80% huh?

SO what is it? What it 80%? Is it good enough? Is it not good enough? Will it matter? Why does Dr. Phil say as long as there's 80% then the other 20% doesn't matter? I just don't know. There are so many things to think about. Too many things to know. So many unanswered questions. Where are we? Where am I? What does the future look like? What would our relationship look like? Would I love it or would it drive me crazy? How weird is too weird? What battles would I fight? How easily would I lose myself? Am I strong enough? How can I be a "good patient" and not even remember it? Why did those graham crackers taste so dang good today? Why do I.V.'s make me cry? How come my mom drives me crazy but is the one person I trust to make sure I'm fine when things get tough? Why did our relationship suck? Does she know how much I love her? Why am I so unfeeling and harsh sometimes?